The call rate in the relationship should be almost equal, infact the guy should call you more. If he comes up with the excuse of not knowing how to call please know he is not really into you and vice versa.
No relationship is one sided, not at all. Every relationship requires a team spirit to work. No matter how awkward people are in certain areas, there is 100% chance of change once they find someone worth changing for.
Being in a relationship yet doing everything by yourself doesn’t really tell good about the relationship, in most cases you will end up getting hurt because your efforts are not being reciprocated, identify when you’re the only one making efforts and draw your Partners attention to it, if he really loves you the same way you do he will make adjustments to make you feel loved in the relationship.
Whenever your partner fails to identify his lapses but blames you for his ineffectiveness then it’s better you walk out on the relationship because that’s a terrible sign of emotional blackmail and manipulation, you need to stick where your accepted and where your efforts are being Appreciated.
Stop calling people who are not calling you, stop texting those who won’t reply your messages, stop forcing yourself on someone who isn’t making any effort to keep you, love is never one sided but rather a conscious decision to love you despite anything, it’s a team work and you shouldn’t do it alone no matter how much you love the other party.